I wonder if it is the limited connections in XP which is causing your problem. By default XP is limited to 10, MS's idea to help prevent the spread of Virus and trojans, anyone with a basic knowledge of arithmetic will realize how futile this is. Changing this by reg hack can be done, but the easiest way is to download
XP-Antispy a little program that can be used for all sorts of tweaks. I have read that 40 is the absolute maximum available, but even doubling to 20 could make all the difference. Might be worth a try
